Playing Well with Others: Your Field Guide to Discovering, Navigating and Exploring the Kink, Leather and BDSM Communities

Playing Well with Others: Your Field Guide to Discovering, Navigating and Exploring the Kink, Leather and BDSM Communities

Lee Harrington, Mollena Williams


no matter if you're a trembling amateur or a jaded specialist, there's continually anything new to be chanced on within the without end altering, advanced and titillating global of kink. whereas there are many different books in the market that designate easy methods to supply a spanking or tie a half-hitch, Playing good With Others is the 1st publication that explains kink culture—the munches, events, leather-based bars, meetings, workshops, fetish nights, exploratoriums and the entire different gatherings of kinksters that flip BDSM and leather-based from a bed room predilection to a life-style and a neighborhood. You'll examine to:
• learn your personal motivations, wishes, wishes and needs
• Ease your manner into proven groups
• comprehend etiquette in numerous adventurous intercourse groups
• get yourself up to speed with the various different types of occasions to be had to you
• deal with your relationships as you discover new territory
• Negotiate for play and aftercare
• return to the "world at large" with no ruffling feathers
• ...and, after all, solution the all-important query: What do you wear?!

The workforce of Harrington and Williams deals 30-plus years of expertise in varied kink groups: most sensible, backside and turn; homosexual, bi and directly; woman, male and trans; white and POC. either former titleholders and overseas educators, they're an unbeatable pair of "sexual sherpas" with an inimitable voice and loads of knowledge. Playing good With Others is an remarkable and crucial guidebook for somebody who desires to discover or comprehend the "community" point of the kink way of life.

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